gladiatrix 1,109 Posted March 23, 2017 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Popular Post Share Posted March 23, 2017 sometimes i feel like the only one who deeply values the comfort side of omo. X_X it might just be my jung personality type Caretaker talking but i detest omo that lacks comfort... like humiliation is okay, as long as it's followed up by enough comfort to make the victim feel better? i always find myself wanting to hug and soothe characters in omo art and fanfics because no one else is doing it t_t i guess i'm just motherly... it isn't appealing unless everything ends up okay am i the only one out there like this? or am i just a big softie ;0; desperation();, SecretPerson, Brandie and 4 others 7 Quote Link to comment
buggy2013 290 Posted March 24, 2017 Share Posted March 24, 2017 You are NOT the only one. I love the comfort side. I definitely want to cuddle and soothe people in stories/arts who have had an accident and are upset. Or at least for somebody to do it! gladiatrix 1 Quote Link to comment
gladiatrix 1,109 Posted March 24, 2017 Author 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted March 24, 2017 (edited) 1 hour ago, buggy2013 said: You are NOT the only one. I love the comfort side. I definitely want to cuddle and soothe people in stories/arts who have had an accident and are upset. Or at least for somebody to do it! EXACTLY ;0; i haaate it when the author/artist just ends on the character being upset and humiliated like no... noooo... someone please help this poor soul.... and the worst of all is when it's like. someone is harassing them/forcing them to wet/wear diapers/whatever against their will like nO!!!!! NO!!! BE NICE THEYRE INNOCENT Edited March 24, 2017 by etoile (see edit history) RosaE836 1 Quote Link to comment
Brandie 177 Posted March 24, 2017 Share Posted March 24, 2017 Oh yes count me in on the comfort side too! I think we might be the minority but comforting just makes sense to me. gladiatrix 1 Quote Link to comment
OmoCommando 38 Posted March 24, 2017 Share Posted March 24, 2017 To each their own. Personally I prefer it when the characters are enjoying themselves in the act, no humiliation or comfort necessary. Quote Link to comment
gladiatrix 1,109 Posted March 24, 2017 Author 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted March 24, 2017 19 minutes ago, OmoCommando said: To each their own. Personally I prefer it when the characters are enjoying themselves in the act, no humiliation or comfort necessary. that too ;0; it's just better when it isn't like...not enjoyable or at least tolerable for the person wetting too... like if it isn't it just feels wrong Quote Link to comment
HPattern 192 Posted March 24, 2017 Share Posted March 24, 2017 Being of the ABDL persuasion, I may be a bit biased, but I do find stories with accidents much more enjoyable if there's someone to comfort the character after the fact. As far as humiliating accidents, especially with public ridicule, I can't enjoy them at all if the character is alone and "left to the wolves", so to speak. Same goes for forced accidents (like in a bdsm kind of scenario), if it's completely one-sided, it's not okay at all... As MooCom points out, deliberate wettings require no comforting, but for longer stories, that comforting could be a major catalyst for relationship development, and is quite endearing as well. Obviously there's no one single formula for a proper Omo story, but you're certainly not alone in this regard! :) gladiatrix 1 Quote Link to comment
Dunney 475 Posted March 25, 2017 Share Posted March 25, 2017 I, too, dislike humiliation. That's why I seldom watch Japanese omo. There's a large humiliation content in it. Western girls like omo. So do Western men. It must be a cultural thing. It's not racial- I've seen all sorts of people wetting and pooping themselves and loving every minute, or at least giving that impression. With models, you can never be sure. The videos are all from non-Japanese sources. gladiatrix 1 Quote Link to comment
facade 1,947 Posted March 25, 2017 Share Posted March 25, 2017 I greatly enjoy humiliation followed by comfort. Usually only by one special person while the other make fun of them or just don't care. gladiatrix 1 Quote Link to comment
gladiatrix 1,109 Posted March 25, 2017 Author 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted March 25, 2017 2 hours ago, facade said: I greatly enjoy humiliation followed by comfort. Usually only by one special person while the other make fun of them or just don't care. me too sorta? but the comfort has to be like. over the top bc im a softie Quote Link to comment
AliasnameTO 335 Posted March 26, 2017 Share Posted March 26, 2017 I like fairly intense humiliation as long as it's focused more on the "what will they think of me?" front than the "I'm a piece of crap" kind of shame. And comfort afterwards is ideal. Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted March 27, 2017 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted March 27, 2017 Just about every story I've written or fantasy I've had about it has usually ended with them feeling better about it by the end. I'm just soft that way gladiatrix 1 Quote Link to comment
gladiatrix 1,109 Posted March 27, 2017 Author 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted March 27, 2017 4 hours ago, AliasnameTO said: I like fairly intense humiliation as long as it's focused more on the "what will they think of me?" front than the "I'm a piece of crap" kind of shame. And comfort afterwards is ideal. YEAH that makes sense.. like a shame that stems from anxiety rather than the actual circumstances making them upset Quote Link to comment
tennyson 465 Posted March 27, 2017 Share Posted March 27, 2017 I have to agree on several points. I love it when Omo is being enjoyed. I do not mind if the person has an accident or is prevented from using the toilet - IF they are into that. Being comforted / assured afterward is just beautiful. Huge turn offs: Degredation /verbal /physical abuse, etc. Unwanted attention (like a photographer/videographer who films women without their consent peeing outside bars - and especially if the woman is crying and saying "No! No!" and the video/photographer keeps on violating her personal space. Pressuring and forcing an accident. (I do not mean role play and/or acting where there are limits. I am talking about men who literally want to control all aspects of a woman's life type of situation.) gladiatrix and Wetboxers 2 Quote Link to comment
gladiatrix 1,109 Posted March 27, 2017 Author 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted March 27, 2017 41 minutes ago, tennyson said: I have to agree on several points. I love it when Omo is being enjoyed. I do not mind if the person has an accident or is prevented from using the toilet - IF they are into that. Being comforted / assured afterward is just beautiful. Huge turn offs: Degredation /verbal /physical abuse, etc. Unwanted attention (like a photographer/videographer who films women without their consent peeing outside bars - and especially if the woman is crying and saying "No! No!" and the video/photographer keeps on violating her personal space. Pressuring and forcing an accident. (I do not mean role play and/or acting where there are limits. I am talking about men who literally want to control all aspects of a woman's life type of situation.) SAME ON ALL POINTS... as a fem-aligned person (read: i look like a woman) the idea of the whole "total control" thing just...disgusts and frightens me honestly? like if that's what you're into more power to you but personally i avoid people like that ;; Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted March 27, 2017 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted March 27, 2017 Yeah I'm really against someone forcing someone to wet herself, unless they know she's all right with it. I can maybe enjoy fictional instances of it, but never in real life. WetDave 1 Quote Link to comment
WetDave 650 Posted March 27, 2017 Share Posted March 27, 2017 I'd absolutely hate to see someone seriously embarrassed or, worse, humiliated after wetting themselves in real life. Even in fiction I prefer if someone gives some comfort, help or support to someone that's peed themselves. It's just nicer like that. gladiatrix 1 Quote Link to comment
gladiatrix 1,109 Posted March 27, 2017 Author 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted March 27, 2017 27 minutes ago, WetDave said: I'd absolutely hate to see someone seriously embarrassed or, worse, humiliated after wetting themselves in real life. Even in fiction I prefer if someone gives some comfort, help or support to someone that's peed themselves. It's just nicer like that. it makes me feel less guilty ^^; WetDave 1 Quote Link to comment
LunasAuditor 163 Posted March 28, 2017 Share Posted March 28, 2017 I agree with the premise of this post - I definitely don't like humiliation, with the possible exception of where it's consensual, so like people agreeing that one will humiliate the other, sub/dom roles etc, but even then it's subjective, based on individual situations... One of my favourite parts of Omo is the warm comfortable feeling and I'm more of a fan of voluntary wettings so the comfort is in the act itself, but I guess I do like to see situations where someone's embarrassed after wetting but comforted by a partner and I guess comes to see the enjoyment of it... But blatant humiliation and ANYTHING non-consensual is totally out, there's no excuse for it in real life so I hate to see it portrayed in videos etc, biggest turn-off in the book! Quote Link to comment
gladiatrix 1,109 Posted March 28, 2017 Author 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted March 28, 2017 26 minutes ago, LunasAuditor said: I agree with the premise of this post - I definitely don't like humiliation, with the possible exception of where it's consensual, so like people agreeing that one will humiliate the other, sub/dom roles etc, but even then it's subjective, based on individual situations... One of my favourite parts of Omo is the warm comfortable feeling and I'm more of a fan of voluntary wettings so the comfort is in the act itself, but I guess I do like to see situations where someone's embarrassed after wetting but comforted by a partner and I guess comes to see the enjoyment of it... But blatant humiliation and ANYTHING non-consensual is totally out, there's no excuse for it in real life so I hate to see it portrayed in videos etc, biggest turn-off in the book! Good to see you have your priorities in order and i agree 100% with that second paragraph!! an especially cute scenario is the wetter's partner saying something like "do you feel better?" thus prompting them to realize that yes, they do feel better =D LunasAuditor 1 Quote Link to comment
LunasAuditor 163 Posted March 28, 2017 Share Posted March 28, 2017 12 minutes ago, etoile said: Good to see you have your priorities in order and i agree 100% with that second paragraph!! an especially cute scenario is the wetter's partner saying something like "do you feel better?" thus prompting them to realize that yes, they do feel better =D Always fun to see someone won over to the Omo side! (even if it's only fiction!) Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted March 28, 2017 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted March 28, 2017 (edited) Yeah the only involuntary wetting stories I can allow myself to enjoy are the ones where they either deliberately put themselves in that situation knowing it was very likely to happen, or can look back on it and find the experience enjoyable even if they didn't then, as a certain someone explained clearly in one of her stories. Edited March 28, 2017 by The Dark Wolf (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
gladiatrix 1,109 Posted March 29, 2017 Author 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted March 29, 2017 14 hours ago, The Dark Wolf said: Yeah the only involuntary wetting stories I can allow myself to enjoy are the ones where they either deliberately put themselves in that situation knowing it was very likely to happen, or can look back on it and find the experience enjoyable even if they didn't then, as a certain someone explained clearly in one of her stories. Certain someone? Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted March 29, 2017 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted March 29, 2017 (edited) Our goddess, KozmoFox. Story in question is the one about "Two Wettings on the Night Before Christmas", where she said: Its hard to revel in it when you're panicking and trying not to do it, but looking back on it later is always rather fun. Until then I wondered why people posted stories like that while wanting us to enjoy them, well now I know. I'm still a little new to all this, after all Edited March 29, 2017 by The Dark Wolf (see edit history) kamina 1 Quote Link to comment
Wetboxers 37 Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 I've never been a fan of involuntary wetting, forced accidents, or humiliation (real or faked). For me, and this goes for men and women, omo is entirely about comfort/soothing/relaxing feeling, with just a hint of naughtiness to it. Like as much fun as it can be to be daring and naughty about this sort of thing (he says, as someone who has only had the guts to wet publicly a few times, and even then while dressed darkly and at night), the ultimate "idea" of omo, for me, is two people relaxing in bed or on the couch with one another, and just wetting as desired because it feels pleasurable and comforting to do so. gladiatrix 1 Quote Link to comment
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