buggy2013 290 Posted December 6, 2016 Share Posted December 6, 2016 Okay, so for an individual who enjoys the idea of somebody being desperate to pee, and maybe even wetting themselves (or even relieving the self somewhere unusual like a towel or bottle or outside) I find that strangely I get really anxious when. Know somebody has to pee. Like when someone mentions casually that they could use a restroom, but make no move to find one or go use the available one it drives me nuts. Or if someone mentions needing to go and are fidgeting a bit but I know there will be a bit of a wait it puts me on edge. Am I a weirdo? (Maybe a bit of a control freak?) or does this stress other's out too? Maybe it's misplaced expectation or not being in control of the situation? Not saying that it should turn me on when somebody is uncomfortable, it just seems to be my thing until faced with it IRL. Any thoughts? Waterfalan, GreenChile and jackthestripper 3 Quote Link to comment
LucyVersion2.0 1,218 Posted December 6, 2016 Share Posted December 6, 2016 *Holds out her hand* Hehe I don't think you're a weirdo, no. I get anxious when someone has to use the restroom, if there's a good chance they won't make it, and will be embarrassed by having an accident. I don't want anyone to feel humiliated. I was once really desperate to pee on a plane, and couldn't leave my seat. People around me were looking anxious. I think it's a common, empathetic thing. Most people, even us fetishists, don't want to make asses of themselves, and we don't want to see it happen to anyone else, either. buggy2013, Michelley and WetDave 3 Quote Link to comment
buggy2013 290 Posted December 7, 2016 Author Share Posted December 7, 2016 2 hours ago, LucyVersion2.0 said: *Holds out her hand* Hehe I don't think you're a weirdo, no. I get anxious when someone has to use the restroom, if there's a good chance they won't make it, and will be embarrassed by having an accident. I don't want anyone to feel humiliated. I was once really desperate to pee on a plane, and couldn't leave my seat. People around me were looking anxious. I think it's a common, empathetic thing. Most people, even us fetishists, don't want to make asses of themselves, and we don't want to see it happen to anyone else, either. Good point. Thanks for your input! Quote Link to comment
LOLC2k 211 Posted December 7, 2016 Share Posted December 7, 2016 Kind of depends for me. I always feel this way if I see a desperate guy, though that is rare. With women it depends on a few factors. If the woman is into it, even if accidental I am into it (by that I mean if I know she likes to hold it, I will enjoy it even if she gets accidentally desperate). That's the main factor. If she seems in control or able to wait, I usually find it attractive. If she actually looks like she might wet, then I start to mostly just feel bad. Quote Link to comment
Auntie 68 Posted December 7, 2016 Share Posted December 7, 2016 (edited) I've also always had that feeling. I feel empathetic, I suppose, towards someone who needs to be pee really bad but has to wait it out for some reason. Even if they have the opportunity to go, but wait it out on their own accord, it makes me a bit anxious. If it's me, I can just hold it and be okay with it for a long time (I'm not actually into holding or wetting myself, prefer other things.. and watching others) since it takes a lot for me to actually get desperate, but when I see someone else pee dancing or saying "I have to pee so bad" I feel really bad for them and it keeps bothering me until they actually go do their deed. My first worry is not actually that they'll wet themselves though, but I just feel like they're "suffering" a lot and it makes me feel bad. xD Just remembered another reaction I have. I also tend to get a strange "tingly" feeling, as if it's actually I who need to pee, not someone else. The empathy goes far in this one for me, lol. Edited December 7, 2016 by Auntie (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
Clem Trilling 5 Posted December 7, 2016 Share Posted December 7, 2016 Fine, I'll be the creepy one! I get very quiet and orient to that like a cat on the prowl. Except I'm not a cat, and therefore likely to trip over myself. Just depends on the degree to which the speaker can be regarded as a sexual object. Quote Link to comment
Fred46888 201 Posted December 7, 2016 Share Posted December 7, 2016 Knowing that someone else (male) needs to pee excites me, and I do feel empathy, but what really turns me on is if I know he has to go - and perhaps even verbalizes it - but chooses not not to use an available toilet and keeps holding it. I've seen this happen several times. Quote Link to comment
Eric0883 0 Posted December 13, 2016 Share Posted December 13, 2016 Even though i have bladder issues i dont mind wearing a diper. I got uesed to it. Most of the time i cant control it but there very few time to where i dont go for more than 10 hours. Even though i loose control most of the time, i like the feel of a wet diper on me. Quote Link to comment
Bravestone 375 Posted January 11, 2017 Share Posted January 11, 2017 On 12/6/2016 at 6:08 PM, buggy2013 said: Okay, so for an individual who enjoys the idea of somebody being desperate to pee, and maybe even wetting themselves (or even relieving the self somewhere unusual like a towel or bottle or outside) I find that strangely I get really anxious when. Know somebody has to pee. Like when someone mentions casually that they could use a restroom, but make no move to find one or go use the available one it drives me nuts. Or if someone mentions needing to go and are fidgeting a bit but I know there will be a bit of a wait it puts me on edge. Am I a weirdo? (Maybe a bit of a control freak?) or does this stress other's out too? Maybe it's misplaced expectation or not being in control of the situation? Not saying that it should turn me on when somebody is uncomfortable, it just seems to be my thing until faced with it IRL. Any thoughts? Me too! I suddenly lose the ability to focus clearly. Quote Link to comment
supernerd222 215 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 Not anxious, just awkward. I chalk it up to it being such a sexually charged topic: it's awkward for me in the same way it would be awkward if someone started casually talking about the sex they had last night or something. Adult diaper commercials are also pretty uncomfortable when I'm watching TV with other people around. Quote Link to comment
Barry 1,608 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 The only time that I get anxious, is if I'm around someone who is not only needing to go, but also more than a good chance of having an accident. Drunk people, kids, the elderly or sick will cause anxiety because they are likely to do it without control, and I feel empathy for them. If it's a perfectly healthy adult who is capable of looking after themselves, and is in a situation where they can safely relieve themselves, then I haven't got as much sympathy or empathy for them if they did have an accident, therefore I'm not as anxious. Quote Link to comment
HPattern 192 Posted January 15, 2017 Share Posted January 15, 2017 If it's a guy, it's auto-anxiety as you describe. If it's a gal, then it depends on how well I know them, what the situation is (e.g. They're going to be embarrassed-->anxious; The cleanup/mess is going to cause a lot of trouble for them/others-->anxious; They're really upset-->anxious), and their demeanor/reaction to the situation. OTOH, if they're desperate by their own fault/choice, have an easy way to relieve themselves at hand, and their state is causing problems for me/us/the group, then I may end up more annoyed than anything... Quote Link to comment
jackthestripper 75 Posted January 15, 2017 Share Posted January 15, 2017 Yeah it makes me feel pretty awkward. This is my fetish after all, it's kind of like I walked in on them naked. Pee can also get kinda gross honestly, just like as a liquid. Inconvenient, embarrassing, upsetting. I take a lot of public transportation and if you do too you know people wet themselves in public frequently and it gets gross fast. I've yet to witness anything but I doubt it'd be much better than the time I saw a guy throw up. My biggest sexual fantasy would probably be finding a really good virtual novel or game that caters perfectly to me because I am so bad with people. Quote Link to comment
facade 1,947 Posted January 23, 2017 Share Posted January 23, 2017 It's also an awkward feeling for me. I get a bit anxious when they don't go right away or when they say they're going to wait. Even if they don't need it that bad. Quote Link to comment
OmoCommando 38 Posted January 23, 2017 Share Posted January 23, 2017 I am a pretty empathetic person, so I can't help but consider the other person's feelings over my own. It is simply not within my character to put my pleasure before the welfare of another person, and therefore the possibility that they might end up in an uncomfortable or humiliating situation puts me on edge. Quote Link to comment
Waterfalan 30 Posted June 6, 2018 Share Posted June 6, 2018 On 12/7/2016 at 12:08 AM, buggy2013 said: Okay, so for an individual who enjoys the idea of somebody being desperate to pee, and maybe even wetting themselves (or even relieving the self somewhere unusual like a towel or bottle or outside) I find that strangely I get really anxious when. Know somebody has to pee. Like when someone mentions casually that they could use a restroom, but make no move to find one or go use the available one it drives me nuts. Or if someone mentions needing to go and are fidgeting a bit but I know there will be a bit of a wait it puts me on edge. Am I a weirdo? (Maybe a bit of a control freak?) or does this stress other's out too? Maybe it's misplaced expectation or not being in control of the situation? Not saying that it should turn me on when somebody is uncomfortable, it just seems to be my thing until faced with it IRL. Any thoughts? I feel exactly as you describe. Quote Link to comment
Waterfalan 30 Posted June 6, 2018 Share Posted June 6, 2018 On 1/12/2017 at 3:31 AM, supernerd222 said: Not anxious, just awkward. I chalk it up to it being such a sexually charged topic: it's awkward for me in the same way it would be awkward if someone started casually talking about the sex they had last night or something. Adult diaper commercials are also pretty uncomfortable when I'm watching TV with other people around. this makes a lot of sense. Quote Link to comment
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