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I mean the obvious probably doesn't need to be stated. You just go in your diaper instead of the toilet, and deal with the consequences.

I mean it can be confronting because of the smell and the clean up, but there's something especially humiliating about messing yourself. How you go about it, you probably should decide between yourselves, but showering might be easier than trying to use wipes, because it is messy and if you're not used to changing diapers, you might not be ready. Just be ready to stink and feel dirty.

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Yep there are some of us here into messing. Getting into it is pretty easy: wait until you have to go, then go. If you want to eat some extra fiber or some metamucil, that can ease things along. Keep in mind that poo can stain clothes, so wear dark underwear or diapers. Taking a shower after is pretty essential.

Go have your adventures and then report back!

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My former co-worker said doing it is just like pee desperation. You wait until you need to go and just sit, fighting the urge to run to the bathroom; take off your clothes; and sit on the commode. When the feeling was overwhelming, she said she fought the urge until she could no longer get up and go to the bathroom without some mess coming out.

She was not into diapers, but messy panties, bathing suits, and pantyhose. At work she would make sure she ate foods that made her mess more dense and easier to clean up.

I once found a story on Patches old site about a bike ride and read it to her on a delivery job. She loved it. She later said that riding a bike with a small nugget of mess was very erotic.

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My boyfriend and I both love it! I got into it around age... 10 or 11? I thought pee was dirty and hot, so why not try pooping myself? If I can remember correctly, the first on-purpose "accident" I had was in one of my sisters' baby diapers after holding all day long at school. I graduated to pooping my panties and swimsuit bottoms over the toilet after a couple months. Then fully clothed messing probably a couple years after that. Then got into scat play probably around 15 or 16; I'd wait til I was home alone, then get in the tub, mess myself, rub it all over my body, and cum in my mess. Cleanup was easy that way; when I was done, I could simply just turn the shower on, and it'd wash away. BF and I tend to like to stay in our messes for a while afterwards, but we usually take a shower at most 2-3 hours after messing. 

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My playmate, a slightly older girl (may be 10) and me about 8 started wetting together after I saw her pee her pants playing tag. One day she put dirt down my underwear and started rubbing it around. Then she explained we could do the same thing except it felt better. It does, and it is very addicting. If you like it, you may not stop.

A girlfriend at work, many years later loved to wet but not poop. One day in the shower cleaning up after our golden showers, I pushed a small firm poo into my peed pants and put her hand over it through the wet cotton. She rubbed it around and played with it for a while. Then I took it out of my pants and slipped it into hers. At first she didn't like it but let me play with it over her bottom while masturbating her. When she asked me to take it out, I did, carried it over to the toilet and that was that.

Next Monday at work we left early for her apartment for our wetting games, but today she locked the door behind her and said "I have to go!"

She pushed 2 poops into her panties and was as excited as I've ever seen her. This happened 20 years ago. She only goes on a toilet if there's no other way.

Make no mistake, it is smelly, you need a safe place to play, it isn't safe with strangers - it's a lot of trouble, but if you get addicted, you'll want to do it forever. If you decide to try it, please let me / us know how you did it. 

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Thanks everyone who replied, this really helped her out a lot. My fiance she posted this to find out more and yesterday we talked more about it in person. We share this account. I am so lucky that she loves me enough to be willing to try diaper messing... I was kinda emberassed to tell her but since we now share this account, I figured it was time she knew I was into that. I am not really into scatplay or anything else. I just get extremely aroused when I see women desprately filll her diaper (or panties/swimsuit). That gets me off and I really never understood why. So with that being said, we are going to try it soon but not sure exactly when because we both live with other people (when we get some privacy). Im gonna make my princess give this daddy a lap dance in her messy diaper then maybe give me a bj while messy. After 5 minutes of each she can change out of it shower (she said she didn't want to sit in it for too long)..

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It was funny, I also showed her some female diaper messing videos aand she jokingly says "I don't care about porn but when you watch this I get kind of jealous" so I told her that she could mess her diaper right in front of me and it would be 99999999 times sexier because shes my lovley future wife...

Also to Elektrawets: Do you have any tips and suggestions on vaginal maintenence and health... She is worried about getting it in her vagina. And also she doesn't want to be in a wet or messy diaper for very long....does she have anything to worry about? I think vaginal health is the reason she is kinda hesitant to keep the diaper on. Any tips for her health and cleaning would really help!!! Thanks Elektra!!!

21 hours ago, ElektraWets said:

My boyfriend and I both love it! I got into it around age... 10 or 11? I thought pee was dirty and hot, so why not try pooping myself? If I can remember correctly, the first on-purpose "accident" I had was in one of my sisters' baby diapers after holding all day long at school. I graduated to pooping my panties and swimsuit bottoms over the toilet after a couple months. Then fully clothed messing probably a couple years after that. Then got into scat play probably around 15 or 16; I'd wait til I was home alone, then get in the tub, mess myself, rub it all over my body, and cum in my mess. Cleanup was easy that way; when I was done, I could simply just turn the shower on, and it'd wash away. BF and I tend to like to stay in our messes for a while afterwards, but we usually take a shower at most 2-3 hours after messing. 

 

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I tried to poop myself on purpose when I was about 15 years old. I got diarrhea from some food but I was at home and alone. It was Friday, my parents was in summer cottage so I had appartment only for me. I tok briefs and jeans and let it go in them. It was something new for me but feeling was nice.

Now I take laxative 3-4 times in a year and I try to hold it so long it is possible. But I do it only 3-4 times in a year because to take laxative is not good for inestines. Maybe it is another way to get diarrhea but I do not know it.

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1 hour ago, DLcoupleAnon said:

It was funny, I also showed her some female diaper messing videos aand she jokingly says "I don't care about porn but when you watch this I get kind of jealous" so I told her that she could mess her diaper right in front of me and it would be 99999999 times sexier because shes my lovley future wife...

Also to Elektrawets: Do you have any tips and suggestions on vaginal maintenence and health... She is worried about getting it in her vagina. And also she doesn't want to be in a wet or messy diaper for very long....does she have anything to worry about? I think vaginal health is the reason she is kinda hesitant to keep the diaper on. Any tips for her health and cleaning would really help!!! Thanks Elektra!!!

 

If she does this often, EXPECT that she will get a UTI. Period. Getting fecal matter anywhere near the vagina/urethra is just bound to have it happen. That being said, both of you need to discuss and know exactly what steps you can take to get it rectified. UTIs aren't dangerous unless left untreated. Do research and approach your kink with knowledge and safety in mind. Clearing up a UTI is a pretty simple thing - just a visit to the doctor, pee in a cup, and they'll prescribe antibiotics. If she feels a constant urge to urinate or has pain during urination, get her to the doctor as soon as she can as those are the typical UTI symptoms. Most female-type doctors are usually pretty open about getting a UTI appointment scheduled pretty quickly because the damn things are miserable.

Getting her super-showered and clean afterwards is pretty vital. If she can find a pH-balanced, gentle vaginal soap to use, that may help. MAKE SURE she urinates after playing around in a mess. It'll help clear out the urethra. Keeping her hydrated so she regularly urinates after play should help as well. Some women swear by cranberry supplements/100% juice to help their urinary systems stay healthy and avoid UTIs. She may to try that. 

No idea on your kinks, but I'd really, really recommend against squishing/playing/having intercourse with messing near the vagina. It's more likely to push the bacteria where it really shouldn't be.

Basically, operate under the premise that poop should be nowhere near the vagina (as it shouldn't) and that she should be changed as soon as you both can/want to manage to reduce the likelihood of an infection.

But as mentioned before, UTIs aren't a huge deal as long as you both get it dealt with as soon as possible. 

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Thank you so much, I'll have her read this soon, but we haven't even tried it yet and probably won't get to do it often at the moment (we don't live together yet: still finishing college). But your response was really helpful, i was hoping for mostly females to comment on this to help her out because she started this topic...

16 minutes ago, girliegirl765 said:

If she does this often, EXPECT that she will get a UTI. Period. Getting fecal matter anywhere near the vagina/urethra is just bound to have it happen. That being said, both of you need to discuss and know exactly what steps you can take to get it rectified. UTIs aren't dangerous unless left untreated. Do research and approach your kink with knowledge and safety in mind. Clearing up a UTI is a pretty simple thing - just a visit to the doctor, pee in a cup, and they'll prescribe antibiotics. If she feels a constant urge to urinate or has pain during urination, get her to the doctor as soon as she can as those are the typical UTI symptoms. Most female-type doctors are usually pretty open about getting a UTI appointment scheduled pretty quickly because the damn things are miserable.

Getting her super-showered and clean afterwards is pretty vital. If she can find a pH-balanced, gentle vaginal soap to use, that may help. MAKE SURE she urinates after playing around in a mess. It'll help clear out the urethra. Keeping her hydrated so she regularly urinates after play should help as well. Some women swear by cranberry supplements/100% juice to help their urinary systems stay healthy and avoid UTIs. She may to try that. 

No idea on your kinks, but I'd really, really recommend against squishing/playing/having intercourse with messing near the vagina. It's more likely to push the bacteria where it really shouldn't be.

Basically, operate under the premise that poop should be nowhere near the vagina (as it shouldn't) and that she should be changed as soon as you both can/want to manage to reduce the likelihood of an infection.

But as mentioned before, UTIs aren't a huge deal as long as you both get it dealt with as soon as possible. 

 

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5 minutes ago, DLcoupleAnon said:

Thank you so much, I'll have her read this soon, but we haven't even tried it yet and probably won't get to do it often at the moment (we don't live together yet: still finishing college). But your response was really helpful, i was hoping for mostly females to comment on this to help her out because she started this topic...

 

 

There are *some* females into messing, but as far as I've noticed, I'd say 90%+ of people into it happen to be male-bodied. Which is probably for the best - way harder for them to get UTIs from it. Haha. :)

Basically, just be aware there's a health risk with playing and know what to do to get it fixed if she does get a UTI. There are lots of resources online about how to try to prevent UTIs. :)

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I like to do this as well, but I'm not a fan of the cleanup. A shower is vital. I don't know what how some people can just clean themselves with wipes. 

For me, small accidental ones are better, like having a "shart," where a little bit of runny poo escapes when I break wind. I like to gamble on risky farts if I know I can safely clean up afterwards without anyone finding out. 

Im not such a fan of just deliberately forcing a large load out, although that's what I usually do when I mess, as it's all about privacy and timing, and I can't be guaranteed that when I have these, I'm also going to magically need a risky fart. 

So when I get the urge to mess, (like now,)  it's usually because I've got the house to myself, the time to take a long shower afterwards, and the opportunity to put a load of washing on when I'm finished. 

My wife's at work at the moment, and I got up early, put on a pair of briefs, and wet myself in the shower over an hour ago, then put my pyjamas on over my wet undies, and logged on here. 

Ive been trying to do a risky fart ever since, but with no success. I'm about to go to the bathroom, where I'll end up just deliberately pushing a big mess out instead, then scrub my already wet undies in the shower, and put a load of washing on with them in it.

Id much rather have an accident, but there's no danger of that happening, and so I'll just use the time and privacy available to me now to do it.

But I know in advance that I'll hate the clean up, and tell myself after that I'll never do it again.

Until the next time. Lol. 

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2 hours ago, Barry said:

I like to do this as well, but I'm not a fan of the cleanup. A shower is vital. I don't know what how some people can just clean themselves with wipes. 

For me, small accidental ones are better, like having a "shart," where a little bit of runny poo escapes when I break wind. I like to gamble on risky farts if I know I can safely clean up afterwards without anyone finding out. 

Im not such a fan of just deliberately forcing a large load out, although that's what I usually do when I mess, as it's all about privacy and timing, and I can't be guaranteed that when I have these, I'm also going to magically need a risky fart. 

So when I get the urge to mess, (like now,)  it's usually because I've got the house to myself, the time to take a long shower afterwards, and the opportunity to put a load of washing on when I'm finished. 

My wife's at work at the moment, and I got up early, put on a pair of briefs, and wet myself in the shower over an hour ago, then put my pyjamas on over my wet undies, and logged on here. 

Ive been trying to do a risky fart ever since, but with no success. I'm about to go to the bathroom, where I'll end up just deliberately pushing a big mess out instead, then scrub my already wet undies in the shower, and put a load of washing on with them in it.

Id much rather have an accident, but there's no danger of that happening, and so I'll just use the time and privacy available to me now to do it.

But I know in advance that I'll hate the clean up, and tell myself after that I'll never do it again.

Until the next time. Lol. 

No need to go into deep detail about yourself on this particular thread barry lol.

My fiance was just wondering if there were any Female advice/experience on the subject. Especially with the feminine health and hygiene. The only thing really holding us back is having to deal with cleaning it... I'm the one into it and wants her to try it. She is more into BDSM, kitten cosplay and lingerie which is why she had some questions about it.

 

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9 hours ago, DLcoupleAnon said:

It was funny, I also showed her some female diaper messing videos aand she jokingly says "I don't care about porn but when you watch this I get kind of jealous" so I told her that she could mess her diaper right in front of me and it would be 99999999 times sexier because shes my lovley future wife...

Also to Elektrawets: Do you have any tips and suggestions on vaginal maintenence and health... She is worried about getting it in her vagina. And also she doesn't want to be in a wet or messy diaper for very long....does she have anything to worry about? I think vaginal health is the reason she is kinda hesitant to keep the diaper on. Any tips for her health and cleaning would really help!!! Thanks Elektra!!!

 

I know someone already answered this quite thoroughly, do you still want my two cents?

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13 minutes ago, ElektraWets said:

I know someone already answered this quite thoroughly, do you still want my two cents?

Of course! Anything helps! I just want my fiance to be educated on the subject because she isnt too familiar with diaper messing. And also when you and your boyfriend use diapers do you guys wet AND mess together? And are there any activities/diaperplay you guys do like cuddling, cleaning, folding clothes, watching movies, or even humping and bondage??? 

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On 9/3/2016 at 6:53 PM, DLcoupleAnon said:

Of course! Anything helps! I just want my fiance to be educated on the subject because she isnt too familiar with diaper messing. And also when you and your boyfriend use diapers do you guys wet AND mess together? And are there any activities/diaperplay you guys do like cuddling, cleaning, folding clothes, watching movies, or even humping and bondage??? 

Cool! So, I've only dealt with maybe 4-5 UTIs from messy play, and that's my fault for having a bit of a fetish for both staying in the mess for a bit longer than I should & giving myself UTIs (I'm gross and bad, forgive me, lol). Most of the time, when we play messy, though, we only stay in it for as long as playing goes (though bae's VERY into messing, so sometimes, that isn't long, hehe). On average, I'd say we stay in the mess for 30 minutes to an hour. We usually do it in our bed, which we have covered in several layers of waterproof sheets at all times. Bae's always got a couple towels on his side of the bed, which we lay in a ring around us before playing to try and keep it contained in one area. In addition to the waterproof sheets and towels, we have loads of adult diapers on hand at all times, and a tower of them are currently located in the corner of our bedroom, so we grab 1-2 diapers, open them, and lay them down under us. Most of the time, the mess just stays in the diaper(s), and cleanup is as easy as throwing the diapers away and taking a shower. 

The best way for your girl to make sure messy play is both fun and vagina friendly would be (IMO) to take these steps:

1) Don't insert poop in her vagina or vigorously rub poop on her vagina

2) Keep a box of wipes in arms reach. This way, if poop gets on any part of her vagina, she can simply pause playing, reach for a wipe or two, and wipe the poop off

3) Wipe herself clean after messing wherever she decides to let go in order to avoid possibly dribbling poop into/near her vagina

4) Watch where you poop! This one goes for the both of you. For example, you pooping on her vagina or her pooping on your cock and then fucking would obviously be a bit risky. 

5) As soon as messy play is over, throw away all dirty wipes and diapers, and take a shower immediately. After showering, throw any possibly affected clothes, sheets, and towels in the wash. 

As for what I do with my bae, we do just about everything together. That includes wetting AND messing, in both diapers and clothes. He's more a diaper person, I'm more into clothed messing and wetting, but we love both kinks so much. 

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