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The hideous side of the Wetting Fetish :(


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The problem with fetish's really is that people hardly find out about them or are affected by them unless 1 of 2 things happen.

 

Either

 

A - Someone is in a long relationship with someone with a fetish. They build up trust and love and eventually admit that they have a fetish to their girl/boy friend. Often that is then accepted by the other person because they love each other and can't accept who they are.

 

or

 

B - Some weird person does something like what she is saying.

 

Unfortunately no one from scenario A goes around talking to their friends admitting that their BF or GF has a fetish because they then think they are like the person in scenario B!

The only person most people are exposed to with fetish's are the people in scenario B and that gives everyone with a different fetish a bad name :/

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This isn't the hideous side of the wetting fetish, this is the hideous side of humanity. 

 

Agreed. I get this regularly for non-pee related things: masturbating for money, showing boobs for money, etc.

 

It's fascinating that it primarily happens to women, though. Not too many men complaining about similar treatments. 

 

So I'm not sure I'd call it the "hideous side of humanity" - moreso the hideous side of our society and how we view and treat women. Humanity isn't *programmed* to be this way.

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How creepy the man she's describing is, has nothing to do with his fetish. This is more like the hideous side of people.

Think about it this way. There's plenty of creeps out there, most are probably just into regular old sex. Its just slightly more memorable when he asks you to piss your pants for money. 

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About the topic there's something i want to confess. This fetish has a bad effect on me. It gained control over my sexuality (i could identify as normal straight male with a fetish,but as time passed i became desensitized and could no longer desire women by themselves) and i only would get aroused by it. I felt(and still feel) empty,because a part of me was taken off(like i felt the need to feel but couldnt,as if i was hungry but couldn't feel the taste anymore),and i almost became suicidal because of it. Like i couldn't feel anything for the girl i loved,as if i was numbed,erased. I had and still have depression because of my addiction. Without my desire i felt that there's no reason to exist anymore because i couldn't be myself.These are effects from porn addiction,and,well... No more omo for me i guess :( OFC this doesn't happen with everybody,but i think it belongs to the topic's name(the dark side of the wetting fetish ) and this is the dark side of my fetish for me. Sorry for the long post and the bad english,love u all.

Ps: No exposure to any porn related material + some antidepressants + God(I'm no fanatic,i'm going to hell just like any bad non believer person,i just love the creator and how my world is beautifuly crafted by him,and that alone gives me a good reason to live) are doing the job for me. Glad i put that out my chest. Thank you everyone that had the patience to read this and send me some good energy. Take care.

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I can say I relate to that feeling, but not in a depressing state of mind. When an ex of mine introduced it to me... I did find out how much I liked this fetish. From there I ended up sharing it with another girl I was with... and didn't admit it for a long time to her.. maybe 2 years.. She ended up loving it too. We seperated after 4 years plus.. and I am in another relationship with a girl who knows of the fetish but isn't her apple off the tree if you know what I mean. The sex isn't the same. It's bitter... But that doesn't change how I feel kind of. I do find it sad I get more aroused watching stuff online than with her though. And even when we are doing anything, I have to like.. mentally think she's bursting or whatever for me to get off. Makes me quite sad. Not as enjoyable. I hope you figure something out that makes you feel better.

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While I would NEVER condone, sanction, or defend in any way someone violating another person in this way, I also can see where someone with a fetish such as ours might feel they have to resort to this kind of an act or even hire a hooker in order to act the fetish out with a living person.   We have a VERY unique fetish in the sense that it's more common than we realize yet so taboo to the point of severe embarrassment or even something detrimental to our well being and destructive to our relationship with family and friends if it fell on the eyes or ears of the wrong person(s).

 

More times than I can count I've gotten the "You're like WHAT!!" or "Ew, that's f**king gross as hell", or the "You want me to do WHAT!"    I've had a few girlfriends leave me, or at the very least the relationship was never the same after I brought up my interest even when I promised NEVER to mention it again.  So I find myself just not mentioning it at all or just making subtle hints if a woman I am dating says she has find a bathroom to pee, I'll be like you might have to pee your pants if you can't find one just test the waters and see the reaction is, only once was the reaction not a negative one.    

 

If I was to tell a woman I had a pantyhose fetish or a foot fetish it often is "Ok, that's cool"  but our pee fetish is often a skeleton that we must keep in the closet with a deadbolt and shackles.  My greatest fear is losing family or close friends over this if they found out.

 

Just curious what you all think of this.

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Let's stay on topic! The bottom line is that whatever negative somebody does that is related to an already-taboo fetish is going to reflect negatively on the fetish. Although, I agree that the guy was clearly demented, for the viewers (and the poster of the video) the fetish will always be associated with a creepy-stalker dude from the mall. The man identified himself as a urine fetishist, which automatically creates association with all of us on this forum whether we like it or not. The man's abhorrent behavior is the same that caused many good youtube videos to be deleted when video posters noticed a bunch of posters writing comments like, "I want to suck off your wet pussy".

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And people on here wonder why we try to be "moral" on an adult site. To keep ourselves apart from people that sound and do things like what OP is talking about. . 

Thank you! People get angry at the so-called "morality police", but really the only policing on here is to avoid seeming like the real perverts! We just try our best to follow the rules and laws.

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Thank you! People get angry at the so-called "morality police", but really the only policing on here is to avoid seeming like the real perverts! We just try our best to follow the rules and laws.

Youtube comments make me fear for humanity. *shudders* I like to pretend they just say things like that for the shock value, but then you hear of things like that happening in real life. There's a difference between fantasy and reality. 

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