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I don't remember this topic being brought up, it probably has been, but it's the kind of topic that you can repeat.  I'm male, by the way.

 

I first got the urge to pee in my pants when I was a teenager.  I remember wondering how it would feel to pee my underwear, so when I was collecting the garbage from the bathroom, I sat on the toilet and pissed in a pair of underwear, then immediately threw them out.   I wasn't hooked, but it was something I would do from time to time.  I think I peed my pants on purpose around 10-15 times a year back then.  It wasn't connected to masturbation, either, it was just something that was pleasurable.  

 

Generally as an adult, I've done it less often than that.  I think there are some years I never did it at all, even when I was living alone.  Lately, though, I've been doing it more.  Yesterday I woke up at 4 AM, peed my underwear on the toilet, drank 3 huge glasses of water quickly (I was afraid I would vomit from doing that), and waited until I could wet my bed on purpose, which is something I've never done.  My mattress isn't protected so I had to be careful, but peeing in my bed felt amazing.  On the other hand, there's lots of shame involved and I'm hoping I got it out of my system; I'm between roommates now so this isn't an issue for the moment, but sneaking around with piss-stained underwear, either hiding it or washing it sneakily, is something I thought I'd left in my youth.  It's arousing now to think about what I did, but I showered first and mostly fantasized about something else to get off yesterday.  

 

So yeah my question for the board (male or female) is how often do you get the urge to pee in your pants (or do a hold and pee your pants, if that's your thing), and how often do you give in to that urge?  Especially interested if it by itself doesn't get you off.

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Wearing diapers 24/7 allows me to have that wet warm feeling without any mess. But I do sometimes just like to feel my pee running down my legs. I don't use a toilet for anything but a BM in the morning. Every pee I take all day long is either in my pants or my diaper. If  I choose underwear and pants or shorts, I then go into the shower and just rinse everything off. First wearing them, then take them off to make sure I get all of the pee diluted or removed from my pants and underwear.  I hang them on the towel rack to dry for a few hours, then over my dirty laundry basket to finish drying. No need to throw away that underwear! Pee don't hurt anything. Just rinse and repeat! :) 

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I have always had that urge.

When I was about 5 or 6, my dad told me to pee in my swimsuit at the beach. I refused, but he lead me into the water, and as soon as it washed over my feet I wet myself. I started to cry, but he explained it was ok to pee my swimsuit in the ocean.

Around that time we got an above ground pool. I was told never to pee in it, as it was quite small. My parents didn't like me being wet and dirty and trying to walk through the house to use the toilet, so they told me it was ok to pee behind some bushes in the yard, even if I wasn't using the pool, I was allowed to pee outside behind those bushes.

One day I was in the pool when the urge to pee happened. I put it off for a while, but eventually couldn't ignore it any longer. I left it too late though. As I climbed out I had a big leak, then I was wetting my Speedos as I ran behind the bushes. But of course being already wet meant that nobody noticed. That's when I realised that I could happily pee outside in wet clothes and nobody would know. This became my "thing" for years. Play in the pool, under the hose, or on the Slip n Slide just so I could get wet and pee my pants.

As I got older, I got bolder. I went from going behind the bushes and peeing myself, to just sneakily doing it without going behind the bushes, to sometimes just not trying to hide it. I remember one day getting out of the above ground pool and just standing on the grass on the side away from my mother, and just letting go in my Speedos. Mum asked me why I had got out, and as I stood there peeing I just said "I had to get out and do a wee!"

When I finished I just got back in the pool again. She didn't tell me off, so I would frequently wet myself if I was wet and playing outside.

I pushed it to far one day though. I was topping up the pool once when aged about 10. I was wearing my green Speedos and a t shirt, and mum was hanging out the laundry on the line and talking to me. I was still dry, and waiting to get wet so I could empty the full bladder I was battling with. As I listened to the running water, my need started to become urgent. So I just let go! I stood there and wet myself on purpose as I talked to mum. She of course noticed, and got quite upset about it. I was a bit confused as to why though.

"I always wee in my swimsuit outside mum. You know I do!"

"You were still dry Barry. You're not a baby. You should always go behind the bushes and wee, not just do it in your pants like a baby. It's different if you're wet, but you don't wet yourself for no other reason than sheer laziness when you're dry."

I tearfully agreed to not do it again. But I did of course, I was just not as obvious about it.

I still love wetting my pants to this day. I enjoy going to the beach and wetting myself before I get in the water, or if I'm home alone, just sitting outside and peeing in whatever I can find. I particularly like wetting my shorts and my onesie.

It's something I've enjoyed for over 40 years now, and I don't see it stopping.

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Especially interested if it by itself doesn't get you off.

 Hey there!

I think I was very much the same growing up. You can read the major stories in my introductory post, but looking back, I've been interested in pee and peeing my pants for a long time. When I was really little, I used to think it was strange how girls would sit to pee and boys would stand, and I'd try to sit on the toilet backwards to pee.

Anyway, I didn't really get the courage to full-out pee my pants until last summer. I indulged for a couple of months, and then got busy with school starting back up, so I stopped. I didn't start peeing my pants again until late June of this year. For the last several weeks, I've peed my pants multiple times. I'd say probably 2-3 times per week. It's a lot easier to give in to the urges when diapers are involved, and I've actually been wearing those every day this week. I love 'em.

My whole point in responding to your post was to inform you that I have never peed my pants (nor will I ever) to "get off." It's just something that's fun, like you say. I also do it because it's a great way to relax after a long and stressful day. It helps me wind down and refocus on what's important. You're not alone.

I call my preferences "omorashi purism." Cause I don't like it in any other forms.

Hope this gave you some answers you were looking for!

~Thisgirl

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As others have said my urge to wet my pants comes and goes. The last time was late July. When I do it for arousal, I imagine a female is watching and enjoying my desperation with me.

Years ago I would wet my pants 2-3 X a week. But in addition to extra laundry, I found excess pee play caused me to leak when I did not want to. That, and my decrease in sexual desire in general , as I have gotten older caused my urge to pee my self. Although I am still aroused perhaps once a week, full , planned wettings  have dropped from once a week, to once a month to only once every few months.

I do allow a small leak into my briefs in between wettings, however. I also enjoy waiting until i am desperate, to take a shower, and struggle to hold back the flow while the water hits me. No cleanup that way.

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 Hey there!

I think I was very much the same growing up. You can read the major stories in my introductory post, but looking back, I've been interested in pee and peeing my pants for a long time. When I was really little, I used to think it was strange how girls would sit to pee and boys would stand, and I'd try to sit on the toilet backwards to pee.

Anyway, I didn't really get the courage to full-out pee my pants until last summer. I indulged for a couple of months, and then got busy with school starting back up, so I stopped. I didn't start peeing my pants again until late June of this year. For the last several weeks, I've peed my pants multiple times. I'd say probably 2-3 times per week. It's a lot easier to give in to the urges when diapers are involved, and I've actually been wearing those every day this week. I love 'em.

My whole point in responding to your post was to inform you that I have never peed my pants (nor will I ever) to "get off." It's just something that's fun, like you say. I also do it because it's a great way to relax after a long and stressful day. It helps me wind down and refocus on what's important. You're not alone.

I call my preferences "omorashi purism." Cause I don't like it in any other forms.

Hope this gave you some answers you were looking for!

~Thisgirl

 

I read this post yesterday afternoon and it motivated me to sit on the toilet and pee my shorts.

 

Everyone else:  Thanks for responding.  It seems like most of you have cycles with it also, I just wish I knew where it came from.

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... I have never peed my pants (nor will I ever) to "get off." It's just something that's fun, like you say. I also do it because it's a great way to relax after a long and stressful day. It helps me wind down and refocus on what's important. ...

I call my preferences "omorashi purism." Cause I don't like it in any other forms....

It's interesting to me that some pants wetters are aroused by wetting and some just do it because it feels good. I use "sensual" and "sensuous" to describe the two types of experiences. I myself love the sensuous feeling of wetting my diapers, pants, and bed, but sometimes the experience is also sensual for me, as I tend to be aroused by wetting. However, I try to avoid solo sex so that I'll have plenty of energy and precious bodily fluids for sex with my partner.

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It's interesting to me that some pants wetters are aroused by wetting and some just do it because it feels good. I use "sensual" and "sensuous" to describe the two types of experiences. I myself love the sensuous feeling of wetting my diapers, pants, and bed, but sometimes the experience is also sensual for me, as I tend to be aroused by wetting. However, I try to avoid solo sex so that I'll have plenty of energy and precious bodily fluids for sex with my partner.

From the Dictionary app in Mac OS X:

usage: The words sensual and sensuous are frequently used interchangeably to mean ‘gratifying the senses,’ especially in a sexual sense. Strictly speaking, this goes against a traditional distinction, by which sensuous is a more neutral term, meaning ‘relating to the senses rather than the intellect’ ( swimming is a beautiful, sensuous experience), while sensual relates to gratification of the senses, especially sexually ( a sensual massage). In fact, the word sensuous is thought to have been invented by John Milton (1641) in a deliberate attempt to avoid the sexual overtones of sensual. In practice, the connotations are such that it is difficult to use sensuous in Milton's sense. While traditionalists struggle to maintain a distinction, the evidence suggests that the neutral use of sensuous is rare in modern English. If a neutral use is intended, it is advisable to use alternative wording.

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I've enjoyed it from as young as i can remember..

 

Similarly to Barry's story, in my family we had an above ground pool, and we weren't allowed to pee in it.  Our parents didn't want us trecking water through the house to the toilet, so they let us pee around the back of the pool out of sight..  Although there was no indication that we could pee in our pants, on many occasions either my younger sister or myself would just sneak around the corner and pee in our wet swimmers, then jump back in the pool.  Many many occasions as a pre-teen, this would happen.  

Unlike Barry, i never got caught peeing in dry swimmers.  Although there were occasions when I would..  I would sometimes only go for a swim so I could pee in my swimmers before getting in the pool.

Fast forward a few years to as a mid-teenager (possibly 15 or 16), and I remember my fascination with peeing growing.  I remember when we only had one toilet at home, and some friends of the family were over.  I was on the toilet going for a no2, and one of the younger (maybe 13 i think) girls was busting to go to the toilet.  She said she would piss herself if she couldn't go soon, and that just made me wait in the toilet even longer.  I wanted her to wet herself, although it wasn't for her embarrassment, it was for my enjoyment.

While my parents were away and I was home alone, i would quite often go into my sisters room and put on her one-piece swimmers (which were waaaay too small, but felt so good) and piss myself in them.  I would then rinse them out and put them back.  I don't know if anyone figured out what was going on or why her swimmers were wet, but noone ever said anything. This went on for a while and i got braver as i got older, wearing her tights or even her underwear on occasion..  Again, it was many sizes too small, but i just enjoyed the feeling of wetting in someone elses clothes, particularly girl clothes.

Moving forward a few years, and my fetish developed.  I puchased diapers over the years, even wore them and pee'd in them a few times in the years before i got married..  I tried pooing in them, but that turned out not to be my thing..  The frequency of me wetting decreased a little bit (maybe a few times a year) until I met a girl who was into bed wetting.  We purchased an incontinence bed pad and would regularly wet the bed.  I had never wet the bed before, but the thrill of it and the pleasure of enjoying wetting pants with someone else who was also into something similar was just amazing.  Unfortunately after about 8-9 months, we broke up, and i went back to only wetting a couple times a year in my own undies. 

A few years passed and then I met a girl 11 years younger than me (I was 29, she was 18) who was really REALLY kinky.  She had never tried wetting pants before but completely enjoyed it.  We would take a copious amount of drugs and then would sit on each others laps on a fold-out chair kissing and wetting on each other.. It was the best (although i DO NOT recommend the drugs thing!).  She would even pretend to have small accidents every so often just to turn me on.  The sex with her was just amazing, and she was right into what I had introduced her to..  I sometimes think she tried it just to please me, and in the end enjoyed it.  We were together for about 18 months until we broke up.  I still remember our sexual antics really fondly..

I started working in a company which required me to do FIFO.  As i work in IT, I would stash some girls undies in the server room of the remote site for whenever i was there..  And my frequency of my peeing my pants started to increase again, with me doing it whenever i was away from home.  But i would only do it in the bath or shower or somewhere like that, which was easy to clean.  I would wash the undies in the sink so they didn't smell and then let them dry overnight, then before i was about to fly home, i would stash them in the server room again.  I was the only IT guy for the company, so I knew they would be safe in there.

During that time, I met my wife.  It took me a little while before i told her about my fetish, and she was a bit reluctant to perform.  Even to this day, she still is reluctant to wet her panties for me, but she does every so often (maybe twice a year, and generally in the bath tub).  She once did it outside while we were going for a walk one night while she was wearing a short skirt, it was so very hot and a massive turn on.  However, she does not know i like to wet myself..  All she knows is that I like to watch her wetting her panties, and often up a skirt.  In fact, she even wears a fake school micro skirt sometimes just for me.

These days, i have purchased some new womens underwear and like to wet in it.  I do, occasionally, like to pee my own boxer briefs, but i prefer to wet in womens underwear.  I performed (i'm a musician) at a venue that was about 1.25hrs drive away from home one night, and was so desperate on the long drive back at 2am in the morning that i pulled over on the side of the long empty road and pee'd my underwear on the side of the road.  I did pull my jeans down, but they still got damn from wearing the jeans afterwards. Thankfully, my jeans were the wet look, so you couldn't see that they were wet.

I discovered this site a few years back but only enjoyed the videos at first.  Then started to read the forums, and now an active participant in them.  I still travel for work (new job) once or twice a month, and thats the only time i get to wet these days..  I have a stash of womens underwear that i like to wet in when i am away, and i try to record each session on either my tablet or phone and upload it here or on my tumblr just so I can share my love of wetting with others.. These days, its not even about getting off for me anymore, its about the feeling of the wetness in my pants, and the thrill of holding it for as long as i can..  Not sure when that changed, and when i watch my wife pee, it still is a sexual thing, but wetting my own pants is more about the feeling now..

Anyway, thats my story..  Hope i didn't bore you all

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Although I totally enjoy wetting in the sensual as well as in the sensuous way, it is something that I don't do a lot. Recently it has been once every couple of month. However, the urge to do so emerges way more often. What has changed over the last couple of years is that don't give in to it that often.

I guess that this is due to two main reasons. First, I've been living on my own for approximately 3 years, so I've had plenty of time to do stuff that I could only have dreamt of years ago. To me it's very obvious that the fact that you can't do stuff like peeing your pants because you live in a flat with other people, makes the imagination of it better than it is when you then have the chance to act it out. 

Another reason is that it's just not really convenient to wet your pants, and I hate the cleanup. So quite often when the urge emerges I browse through omo.org instead ;)

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 To me it's very obvious that the fact that you can't do stuff like peeing your pants because you live in a flat with other people, makes the imagination of it better than it is when you then have the chance to act it out. 

Another reason is that it's just not really convenient to wet your pants, and I hate the cleanup. So quite often when the urge emerges I browse through omo.org instead ;)

 

Ditto, my like minded pee friend.

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With puberty came the urge to pee my pants, why, I do not know; but I enjoyed it then and I enjoy it now.  Of course, finding times and places to indulge my desire were limited, but I managed.  Usually I peed myself alone, but sometimes with select others.  One such other was my best friend Gill.  I managed to pee myself twice with him, but without him knowing.  The third time, however, he caught me.  Without warning he reached down and felt my wet crotch.  He said he was suspicious that I was into peeing myself, and now he knew.  He said he had done it once, but was scared to do it again.  We talked about how it felt, and then he felt me again and noticed that I had gotten hard.  This usually happened after I peed my pants, and talking about it with Gill really got me turned on.  Gill giggled and said he was hard too.  We had some good times after that.

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My urges, like some here, come and go, and there are times where I get the urge to wet myself but I control it and don't do it for that day.  It really depends on the day.  Lately I've been wetting myself several times a week, getting myself ready for when I have a week off from anybody and can just wet constantly.  I also have an urge to wet the bed, but that's on hold until I'm sure I have plenty of time alone.

The first time I really got the urge and acted on it was several years ago, after a particularly stressful day at work.  It was just my underwear back then and in the shower, but I've since worked my way up to doing it fully clothed and pretty much anywhere in my house.

Like a few, I do wet just because I enjoy it, it's relaxing and fun.

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I first got the urge to do it a few years ago, but was always afraid to act on it. Last year, I experimented with peeing my pants in the shower and got used to it. I live in a house with a lot of people and don't get to be home alone too often, so I was nervous about doing it too often. But at the start of this year, with the encouragement of my best friend(who isn't into omo, btw), I began pissing in diapers. First, she supplied me with them, then I bought my own. The other night, I had a huge breakthrough when I held it until I HAD to pee, and absolutely soaked my diaper and jeans, in my room rather than in the shower.

I've experimented with wetting the bed, but I don't do it often, because I can't control the flow and I don't want to actually pee on the sheets(I use a trash bag, a towel, and an old sheet I don't use on my bed anymore) or damage the mattress.

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I get the urge to pee myself very often and it has been like that for years now. Basically every time I need to pee badly, it is a temptation. Due to my weak bladder, it happens often. Even while at work, but of course I don't do it there. I hold it until I can, than I use the toilet. But if I get the urge while at home or grocery shopping or when partying with my friends dressed as a women, I often hold it until the bitter end.

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