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Hey so I've been thinking a bit more on this lately- Any of you guys ever feel the intense desire to experience peeing as a different sex? Like, biologically? Because there are some significant differences. Some are obvious, but others, less obvious, as I've learned through the years. We have physical differences that mean we can pee in different ways, but there are also so many other interesting things to consider to. So to start on a personal note, when I was a kid I was always really jealous of boys because I wanted so badly to be able to pee in a way that seemed so much more free than what I could do. I wanted to not have to pull my pants completely down, to be able to control my stream, to pee through small openings in emergency situations- (e.g. a bottle if I'm in a car on a freeway, or out a window because I'm stuck in a room for some reason, etc.)- or just for fun even, let's be real. I wanted to do so many things my anatomy just wasn't capable of but I couldn't and it bothered me. It wasn't until I entered adulthood that I realised this was mostly due to having a pee fetish. As a teenager, I did actually teach myself to pee standing. It still had its obvious limitations and took some time to master but it was GREAT- have not done it in a while though I will admit so I would probably mess it up if I tried now- and I have some experience with STPs- also great, but again, there are limitations. Even with all this, I do still find myself wishing I could experience peeing with an actual penis- I also wish I could experience cumming with a penis though too sometimes (no where near as badly though)- I have a hard time achieving orgasm and didn't have my first until I was 21- I feel it would be a bit easier it I had a dick sometimes haha- but I could very well be wrong about that 😅 don't get me wrong though, I do love my vagina and its surrounding areas. There are definitely some advantages there 😅 but speaking of, anyone also curious about climaxing as a different sex? I'm sure at least some of you are! Haha Anyway, I think its quite common to be curious about how it feels to pee as the opposite biological sex, even for those not into pee like all of us here, and I do remember doing some reading a few years ago that actually explained that the physical sensation of needing to pee differed between male and female bodies. The difference is apparently only slight, but I find that super interesting! And it just makes me more curious. But I also wonder, what is it like for people who don't fall into the category of male or female? Is the sensation for biologically intersex people different at all? Like, somewhere in between? There is a lot of variation in what is considered intersex so I imagine it would vary with the people depending on, I'm guessing, external genitalia, but I could be wrong. Its also interesting that even outside of our biological differences, there are different social expectations for different genders, and this differs in different cultures, as does how we physically position ourselves to do it. This is also something that- as I only know second hand through research and talking to friends- greatly effects transgender people. I can't claim to experience their experiences first hand at all as I'm not trans, but I've listened to several trans men, women and nb people talk about their experiences when it comes to peeing. There are a lot of things they are often made to think about that us cis people tend to take for granted, even those of us like us who think about peeing A LOT. So yeah, I know I dragged on a bit, but how curious are you guys about experiencing the physical differences? Or what about the social? And does anyone else have any interesting stories on being intensely curious or super jealous over it, like how as a kid I was jealous of boys?
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In japanese culture it is a sigh of friendship to go to the bathroom together, this is based on male friendships i havent found anything on female ones. who do you feel about this?
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I've been living in Japan for 3 years and I would like to share my personal analysis of Japanese culture towards pee. If you just want to read my sightings and pee-related experiences here, they are in yellow. Also I live in a city with less than 500.000 people and far from the big metropolis, so may observations may differ from someone in Tokyo or Osaka. I was born and raised in South America, in a mainly catholic country with the standard christian values (despite beeing an atheis myself). So my first shock arriving in Japan was that here the "nude" is not a tabu as it is in America. I guess in most cultures the exhibition of the body is a responsability of the subject who exhibits it, but in Japan there is a huge responsability bias towards the observer. The image western people have of japanese girls in really short skirts is real (no mater if it's snowing like crazy outside). Around 14yo the girls start shortening their skirts. I guess it's because at that age they are already sexually mature and start enjoying male attention and half Japaneses share that opinion, but the other half says that it's pure fashion (long skirts are not fashionable). Also it's common to see women cleaning the men's toilet, sometimes even when a guy is using the urinal right next to the one being cleaned. Japaneses say "that's her job" and apparently do not care at all. Because of space constraints I also been to two places where the toilet is unisex... but not just a door that can be locked (which is the norm in small Japanese bars), it was a "room" with urinals too where women can just enter while men are using and go to one of the stalls. When using the urinals Japanese men get uncomfortably close to it, so I don't think it would be easy to a women to see anything... anyway, it's weird. Back to the skirts. Girls panties are a common sight on windy days or when they are not so careful riding the bicycle or climbing stairs. By the way, they don't care at all in the escalators that their panties are showing up. And here you never hear people saying "what a bitch, showing herself like that!", if you see a girls panties it's YOUR fault for looking at it, really (in this aspect they are MUCH less sexist than western culture)! The same for men, I've seen men getting drunk and taking off their shirts, pants and even showing their penis among a group of people... and they is not considered perverts, if a girl looks she is the pervert one. Well... so, about peeing! People are very shy here, and girls do not talk about men, boyfriends, sex or things like that (most of them). But I was talking to a Japanese co-worker other day, just having a chat at the office and she just tells me "I want to pee" (Oshikoshitai!) and goes to the toilet. That happens often with any girl here, they just say that no matter how shy they are, even if they just met you. One time I even heard a girl in the office telling another Japanese guy loudly "my belly is aching, I want to poop"!!! And no, I don't work with weird people. Last year summer, playing with a inflatable ball in the sea with some friends one of them just ignores the ball when someone throws it to her and just say "I'm sorry, I was peeing". And those are SHY people! You can see these things in parties too. Talking about parties, the alcohol makes everything worse! Girls after a few drinks just sit with their legs wide spread while wearing skirts. They sleep on the floor showing all their underwear and nobody cares, people don't talk about and often no friend covers the girl or move her to a more secluded place! At the same time men do not say anything sexist and they REALLY do not look (or look in a very discrete way) because they don't want to be considered perverts. In one of those parties a women between 35 and 40yo was completely wasted so she just laid down in three lined chairs. After some time she started peeing herself! There was more than 50 people there and nobody said a word. They just left her there till the party was almost over and then a friend woke her up and dropped she at home. Nobody recorded, nobody made fun of her and nobody commented anything, not even pity of her. That was considered normal because she was drunk (getting drunk here is not considered wrong). They are also very shy of showing they need anything (except a marriage, they are pretty straightforward about that). A lot of times I tried to help people like a girl who fell in front of me with high heels, a guy who broke the light of his bicycle, a friend carrying some heavy boxes in the company... and they all refused and later I was even told by a friend in one of those cases that it was humiliating for them that I offered help! So they try always to hide when they need something.............. except peeing! Often I saw girls holding her crotches in malls or just running to the toilets. Yesterday, the reason I decided to write this, there was this high school girl in the crossing in front of the city university really grabbing her skirt and doing little jumps while telling something to her friend. I decided to just put on the blinkers and stop my car in the street to see what was going to happen since she looked on the limit. I was hopping I could see and accident, but after getting the lights green she crossed, told something to her friend and entered in this building garage somewhere were I couldn't see... after around 30 seconds only she comes back not holding her crotch anymore and looking relieved and they both keep walking. Peeing in a hidden place is ok, that happens everywhere in the world, but I was really surprise how she was grabbing herself in the middle of a really busy crossing with everyone seeing that! One time having a barbecue on the beach (at night) a friend refused to go to the toilet because of the spiders there and just asked me to hold a light while she peed on a bush near the beach (she just asked me to go to the place with her, she didn't want light to pee and I didn't even see where she went, unfortunately). Despite that I think the Omorashi fetish is not that common here. Girls here are much more "normal" in the bed than in my country, and since most of them have little sexual experience they don't like to try different things. The omorashi culture is a nerd thing that is considered bizarre. And the nerds here don't have any cool-hipster aura. They are mainly men who are really freak about something (like memorizing ALL the train stations and trains timetable of a big city!) and are share a really bad image among girls and other guys. If you go to a maid cafe you can see grown up men (over 30s!) doing stupid things and wasting a lot of money to see cute girls doing cute childish stuff in the most fake way possible, most foreigners feel pity for them, and other Japaneses just feel disgusted. Though it's a good place to see accidents and girls who talk openly about pee, I completely lost my hopes of finding any Asian girl into pee related fetishes here. My only hope is finding an North American English teacher with a taste for different stuff. Remember it's a different culture and, in the pee and nude sphere, much healtier (with less tabus) and less sexist than western culture.