ian flemming

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  1. Wouldn't xs just be pull-ups?
  2. I do need to add more . I will eventually . Its both memorable and painful to think about those times.
  3. Diapers while in the machine shop
  4. Skepticism is good , she's not unwilling if you ask her . Its more like it's the last thing on her mind. She is a super involved parent . But has no assistance from her family . And in general I think I'm one of her few friends . Heck the kids even came about by a very abusive boy friend, who in the end was using her isolationist tendencies to swindle money from her , and just about backrupted her . When I figured out what was going on , I stepped in and help to kick the boy friend out. ive since then have been one of the few constants in her life. "you say you never had to watch someone go" I assume you just don't remember , I think we all did or have,as a kids to know the dynamics of how to use the "potty". Potty training isn't just needing to know when you need to go ,it's what to do then. in short I'm contacting another friend of mine to assist in the potty training ( a gal with kids who has done it before). I think it's hard for any of us. My self included to know what it's like in her shoes. Being a single mom while having a pretty significant physical disability .
  5. I've made comment in my original post about thinking I'm going to have to step in and help. i do think you lost sight that I don't believe the lack of training was her intent .
  6. Fantastic as always.... not to bring up a sore subject . How was the hiccup you guys experienced at hd. Would love a update .
  7. Then the trouble becomes finding attractive girls in or about the area your looking at doing photography in. Hell even with in a 100 mile or larger radius . then you might say they don't need to be model quality , but ask one of the many girls on tumblr who are attractive and truly like diapers , and see how many negative comments a day they get about there looks. The point of this rant is because as usual the wants of out fetish are ever increasing . I personally remember the early days and begging for any content . ive now watched over the years people like kimmie, and Shannon feel pushed out of this fetish by this ever increasing demand by the people looking at there content. Be happy with what content that is out there or find a way to produce your own Stepping off off my soap box .
  8. Screw potty training , with a time machine it would be don't date that gal, don't marry her, And definently invest in Microsoft .
  9. I'm not sure what else to add , debating on taking a week off and seeing if I can help potty train. Albeit as I have no kids it frankly feels very uncomfortable even offering . They know there mom wears diapers , and there inlies some of the issue . They need to see normal( that's a little non-pc. I appolagize for that) so that they get the gist . I appreciate the sounding board everybody .
  10. To axe mans point , that's why I posted this . I don't think she actually would say she's not going to train them. But she has very little social pressure to do so . And I'm not entirely sure she has the experience to push it through . I've tried to explain the process as the timed voiding she does. Ive encouraged when I'm around but that is at best once a week. This wasn't meant as fantastical , given my association with diapers and this website , this was literally the only venue I felt I could get a honest opinion .
  11. Im former u.s.c.g , in my branch of the service even during basic There was no way this could of happened . Heck they couldn't even train us past 2200 . further what would the company commanders do, swap out? Must be exaggeration .
  12. I've got a female friend who suffers from incontinence . Shes never been out of diapers , though she does catheter every couple of hours. She super active and has 2 kids a boy 7 and a girl 5. She has yet to potty train either. I've approached her about it and she said when she feels they are ready she will try. The kids don't go to day care . And the mom is planning on home schooling . So with a single parent who is in diapers with no father figure to alternatively show them. Is it possible they may never be potty trained. The 7 year old is changing his own diaper albeit pull-ups . any thoughts here. Please keep it non sexual as we are talking about kids . Looking for a philosophical opinion on its possible.
  13. I think we're getting a lot i knee jerk reaction to the autism comments. Just to remind everybody , we're all on the same team.. supernerds comments are not inaccurate . We are all subject to our fixation and are fetishes it's why we are here. Im super proud that we have autistic people amongst are ranks . Think how neat that really is , that this fetish is a welcoming place for a group of people that see the rest of the world as overwhelming or over stimulating . As I said previously I don't understand why they focused on the article so heavy on the autism side of it. but as a community I encourage us to welcome it, and them .
  14. No insult intenteded . its not something I've seen stats on. But if you circulate through different abdl forms , or go to many munches you see it. Even doing a search on this site brings up some pretty good anadotal evidence. there is a autism specific message board( that I will not link here) that covers some of the cross over as well . you can go to Spokane girls site. Called diaperedmother. she covers it a bit as well..... too the the root of your question , I'm just as clueless as you as to why the huff post focused on this so heavy . And your absolutely right you don't need to be autistic to enjoy this. Or even introverted . (I'm super extroverted) I feel like people enjoy this (abdl)from such a large subsection of the population that we can just about claim any group of people whether they be from any religious, ethnic, economic strata, or sexual orientation. They are "our" people.
  15. There is a big correlation between abdl, and autism . No idea why? but it's a known thing on the boards