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DrBorderline

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    Bathroom Control
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    Bondage
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    Gender bender
    Hypnosis
    Immobilization
    Pleasure control
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  1. In the grand multi-dimensional Venn Diagram that represents kink and fetish content, some overlaps between different interests are larger and some are smaller. Then all of them are further reduced by the overlap with people who have the ability to make such content, meaning the time and equipment and the energy and drive. That's why folks on this forum have to sift through media from all eras and regions to find wetting and diaper content like prospectors panning for gold (no pun intended) compared to more vanilla types who just want to see people try to fit their bits together.
  2. Not to get too paranoid survivalist on main, but I think these laws are just blatant power grabs by aspiring dictators. Doesn't matter if it's federal level, state level, or somebody on the local township board, there's always people who can't be trusted not to abuse power. It doesn't help that this lines up with a lot of theocratic christian nationalist talking points, either; I'd bet thirty dollars that the actual plan is not to prevent children from seeing illicit content, but to cultivate a list of adults who try to access it for the purposes of blackmail, harassment, or worse.
  3. Took Spanish in high school and haven't used much of it since. Tried to teach myself German and Italian in order to read some books I couldn't find English translations of, and at one point I tried to learn Klingon as well. None of them really panned out.
  4. The Wintermute story mode is an interesting and compelling narrative hamstrung by Hinterland (the developers) trying to shoehorn a linear gaming experience onto a survival sandbox. It made my best friend, who loves survival simulators and who was the one who introduced me to The Long Dark in the first place, swear off the entire game permanently. That was how poorly it was implemented. Fortunately they are doing better with the mini-quests in the Echoes From The Far Territory DLC. Another game that might be suitable for holds is 7 Days To Die, which my best friend also got me playing. It is a post apocalyptic survival simulator with a big focus on zombies, and one of the mechanics is exploring old ruined buildings for salvage to build better gear and supplies. A lot of zombies can and will ambush player characters in creative ways - the devs get more devious with every major update - and there have been times I was so startled by a sudden appearance of a Screamer or Spider Zombie that if I HAD been holding at the time, I probably would have had to stop playing in order to clean my chair up. (There is also the seven day Blood Moon / Horde Night event where the zombies swarm and you have to fight them off, but those rarely last very long no matter how hectic they are.)
  5. I've occasionally done holds while playing The Long Dark, with the rule that I can only get up to use the toilet once I find a toilet or outhouse in-game. (And if it's a flush toilet, draining the potable water from the tank, as that's an important resource in a survival simulator.) There are a number of regions with no such facilities but I've never gotten stuck in any of them long enough to have an accident. Yet.
  6. There's a couple of things on a couple of different metrics that irk me, for good or ill. No moral judgment attaches to any of this, of course. Different Strokes for Different Folks. In power dynamic play, I don't like it when the top berates, belittles, or otherwise dismisses the bottom. I know there are people who really get off on being told they screwed up or are inadequate, and that's great for them, but it really drags me down. Semi-related, I tune out very quickly when reading erotica that involves any sort of dystopian police state, even if the power structure enforces the kind of things I like. What can I say, my anti-authoritarianism is stronger than my fetish. In omo / omutsu content, I am averse to watching videos where the people in them are addressing the viewer / looking directly at the camera. I don't actually know what that's about but I think it's a false alarm from my instincts trying to keep this part of my life secret and then freaking out because it seems like somebody knows what I'm doing. And much as with DesperateJill, I don't like seeing semen all over the place either, but it's harder to articulate why that bothers me. It can't be for cleanliness or hygiene reasons, obviously, given my other kinks.
  7. Zip ties and those little luggage locks. Strong enough to secure a jeans zipper / buttonhole fly / belt loop arrangement, but weak enough to be destroyed easily in a genuine emergency and cheap enough that it's no major loss to do so.
  8. Haven't done it, but for some reason in the last three or four months I have started fantasizing about wetting during a road trip, with and without protection.
  9. There is a series of short stories on the Smashwords website by an author named Allister Remm, about a facility that churns out sex slaves via hypnosis and psychological conditioning. One of the tools the facility uses involves urethral inserts that act as remotely controlled sphincters; I don't specifically recall if they were used for forced retention or remote controlled wetting, more that it was primarily used to condition the implantees to ask permission for even basic bodily functions.
  10. Out of all the unrepressed memories I still have access to, the one that fits the bill and is chronologically the earliest would be the book How Do You Go To The Bathroom In Space? by ex-astronaut William R. Pogue. There were sections on waste management hardware in different spacecraft as well as spacesuits, and of course an easy solution for NASA to over engineer was the existing adult diaper. There were other things before that I know but none of them are clear or easy to articulate.
  11. "Machinima" was the technical term for using video games as settings and video characters as puppets for media, popularized by series like Red Versus Blue and Freeman's Mind among many others. I think it got copyrighted or trademarked or something, or was adopted as a company name and tainted by unscrupulous business practices. It takes less production resources than a live action set, but still depends on the presence of real actors to provide voice overs and proper character actions - which also means it needs scripting and storyboarding and other organizational tools used for such media. Though I suppose an improvised live VR chat environment would be a way to get around it, or at least minimizing it; even improv requires a certain minimum structure to keep from falling into complete chaos. (Vtubers use VR models in place of facecams when recording or livestreaming content, to use one example.)
  12. I have gone to great effort to make sure nobody knows about this in my other social circles, for reasons that most people here would understand. The level of secrecy involved is comparable to the work I put into hiding my survival gear and food caches. At the same time, I know that even the best opsec and infosec practices (operational security and information security, basically fancy ways of saying something is "need to know" for those not familiar with the abbreviations) can fail, so if somebody did ask if I wanted to get involved in something like that with them, my first thought would be that I had made a mistake someplace rather than the other party sharing a common interest.
  13. If you're looking for a physiological explanation, the most common is that the nerves for genitalia and the nerves for the urinary tract are in close proximity so it is easy to get signals crossed, but there are plenty of kinks out there that don't have any such correspondence. Like so many things in life it boils down to individual reasons that vary with individual experiences. In my own case I think it got tangled up in power dynamics, like a lot of my other kinks, which has happened to many other people as well. Some folks try to recreate a scenario out of their control, but this time calling the shots, which is often the case for people who had accidents growing up. For others, having an accident in a (relatively) consequence free environment is a way of recovering agency they didn't have when they were younger and held to arbitrary or unrealistic standards. After more than a decade of introspection I think I fall in the latter category, and of course there are even more potential scenarios to explore; the dichotomy between those two extremes simply makes it easy to explain.
  14. There are a lot of different factors in play, from physiological like bladder elasticity and abdominal volume for the bladder to expand into (or not if there's other organs in the way) to endocrine / hormonal effects that change the settings on the body's machinery, to environmental in the form of temperature and even air pressure, psychological / neurological in the case of nerve signals to and from the bladder and sphincters, and of course pharmacological impact like diuretic medication (some blood pressure meds and HRT are at the top of a LONG list). Trying to categorize, let alone track and measure, all of these factors for a single person would be a staggering scientific challenge even before doing anything with the data - we're likely to get a Unified Field Theory of physics before we get a Unified Theory of Continence. Though that DOES give me an idea for a story....
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